When a man dies, and his kin are glad of it, they say, “He is better off.”
—Edgar Watson Howe, 1911Quotes
Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
—Iris Murdoch, 1974A god cannot procure death for himself, even if he wished it, which, so numerous are the evils of life, has been granted to man as our chief good.
—Pliny the Elder, c. 77Death keeps no calendar.
—George Herbert, 1640I order that my funeral ceremonies be extremely modest, and that they take place at dawn or at the evening Ave Maria, without song or music.
—Giuseppe Verdi, 1900We and the dead ride quick at night.
—Gottfried August Bürger, 1773Whoever has died is freed from sin.
—St. Paul, c. 50Imagine a number of men in chains, all under sentence of death, some of whom are each day butchered in the sight of the others; those remaining see their own condition in that of their fellows and, looking at each other with grief and despair, await their turn. This is an image of the human condition.
—Blaise Pascal, 1669What is death? A scary mask. Take it off—see, it doesn’t bite.
—Epictetus, c. 110Is this dying? Is this all? Is this all that I feared when I prayed against a hard death? Oh, I can bear this! I can bear it!
—Cotton Mather, 1728A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest.
—Book of Proverbs, c. 350 BCThe hour of departure has arrived, and we go our ways—I to die, and you to live. Which is better, only the god knows.
—Socrates, 399 BCThe dead are often just as living to us as the living are, only we cannot get them to believe it. They can come to us, but till we die we cannot go to them. To be dead is to be unable to understand that one is alive.
—Samuel Butler, c. 1888